One of my friends is writing a novel with a Darcy-like hero, and so a few of us were talking about how to get the balance right - between the character displaying the typical Darcy characteristics - the aloofness, the pride, the reserve towards everyone that the heroine thinks is rudeness - compared to the attraction, the connection between them. How do you show he is a good guy and not some prat?
One of the things we came up with was that Darcy had a supporter in Bingley.
Bingley always spoke up for Darcy, and indeed seemed nonplussed that anyone could not see the good in him. And Bingley himself was always painted as being such a lovely person, that the only way the two could be such good friends was if Darcy was, indeed, misunderstood.
Now that I'm roaring through the re-read of the original P&P in preparation for reading Pride and Prejudice and Zombies, I'm also reminded that Austen uses type of third person narration called free indirect speech, which gives us glimpses into Darcey's head and so we know how Elizabeth Bennet has intrigued him, and how he resolves to not look at her the next time he sees her.
Which in turn, makes her think he is being even more Darcy-like. It's only a line or two at a time, and his thoughts are quite fleeting, but they are enough for us to share his secret and know that what Elizabeth sees isn't the truth.
So we're Darcy supporters, even when the heroine isn't.